Are you Willing?
I am Willing To be the only one who hears me and loves me. Are you? Are you open to the possibility that you create your reality? These positive changes for you come from this. Are you willing, whether you are feeling happy, and on top of the world, or whether you've just had the worst experience of your life? What ever the circumstance, what ever the situation is for you? .....
This is the catch isn't it?
It's easy to feel really good about ourselves when things are going great in our lives. When things aren't so great, everything seems to change. Suddenly, we react to something, or someone. We begin to doubt what we say, or we take what's been said to us a the truth. We begin to feel like we could have said or done something differently to change the reactions of another. We may begin to feel guilty and responsible, or we may blame ourselves.This is one extreme, the other is believing that they are wrong and we are right. We do everything in our power to point the finger out.
Have you ever wondered why ?
Feelings of guilt, of doing something wrong, and blaming, hit us head on when someone accuses us of not doing something the way they wanted us to. When someone misinterprets what we say. Suddenly these feelings take over our thoughts, and we just can't go on. It really is time to look at those feelings that creep up and continue to make us feel like it's all our fault. The ones that continue to lead us in circles time and time again. This is a pattern and it feels so familiar at times. It is when we are in these moments, that we can begin to make changes. We have to be willing to step outside of the stories, and we have to be willing to keep them neutral. We can learn how to do this. We can be aware and begin to Notice and Recognize the Feelings we are experiencing because this is what we are being made to experience and do differently.
These feelings are old, and our reactions come from the feelings which originated long before the present moment. All reaction is an age regression. This is where we are stuck This awareness will help you become aware of those feelings, and more importantly help you work through them and release the energy from these feelings from recreating the same experiences in your current life. Many of us do an excellent job of covering up these feelings, some of us have no idea they are even a part of our subconscious minds which creates our reality today. Consciously or subconsciously they are stored in our minds and they do come up when we experience situations which make us feel those same emotions which were first created in our past, and have created the thoughts and perceptions in us. If you have ever experienced any type of abuse in your life, you may believe you have healed that part of your life. You may still have negative feelings about yourself either consciously or subconsciously.Emotional abuse, verbal abuse, and sexual abuse are traumatic events which can create these feelings. Sometimes it's not even the abuse itself, but how others around you helped you deal with the abuse. There are also many other experiences which can create these beliefs.A good way to judge for yourself could be by noticing when you find yourself being triggered, or reacting to a situation strongly. As you begin to become aware of this moments, just notice the feelings that come up and see if you can place those same feelings to an earlier experience in your life. Do you see a pattern which could be repeating itself. As you begin to recognize your own thoughts and feelings you may see how you are creating your reality. As you begin to take responsibility for your life, and begin to understand the process of changing what you can change: Your thoughts, life can become peaceful even when things may not look so on the outside.
Are You Willing?
Awareness
Clearing the Clutter of Your Mind
Your Subconscious Beliefs Can Limit You
Are You Willing to do your best at these moments?
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