Willing
Are you willing to Love Yourself Unconditionally right here, and now? Whether you are feeling really happy, and on top of the world, or whether you've just had the worst fight ever with your child, or spouse? What ever the circumstance, what ever the situation is for you..... Are You Willing?That's the catch isn't it? It's easy to feel really good about ourselves when things are going great in our lives. When things aren't so great, everything changes. We begin to doubt what we said. We begin to feel like we could have said or done something to change the reactions of another person. We begin to feel guilty and responsible, and then we blame ourselves. We begin to second guess ourselves.Have you ever wondered why ?Feelings of guilt, of doing something wrong, and blaming, hit us head on when someone accuses us of not doing something the way they wanted us to. When someone miss interprets what we say. Suddenly these feelings take over our thoughts, and we just can't go on. It really is time to look at those feelings that creep up and continue to make us feel like it's all our fault. The ones that will continue to lead us in a circle time and time again. This seems to be a pattern and it feels so familiar at times. It is when we are in those moments, that we can to begin to make those changes. This is where we can become aware and Notice the Feelings that we are currently experiencing. 
These are the times we need to understand where they first originated from and it is at these times that when we can consciously be aware with the support of others, that we can begin to make sense of what is happening and why. If you have ever experienced any type of abuse in your life, you will most likely have negative feelings about yourself. You may do an excellent job of covering up these feelings on the surface, yet you can never run away from them. Emotional abuse, verbal abuse, and sexual abuse are the big ones, yet there are many many other incidents that can create these beliefs. Even if you have never thought of your experiences as abuse, and even if you believe you have overcome those issues by reading about them, or just because that was of this you begin to notice your triggers, and you eventually see your reactions. your past, and you'd rather forget and live your life, you could be affected by those very same beliefs right now. Seeing this is excellent because as you make yourself aware you begin to recognize and see how your own patterns and your own situations affect you. However your subconscious mind plays a very big part in how you react, and this is an area which may require some work. We have so many subconscious beliefs that we may not be totally aware of and once we can sort through these beliefs we can make sense of our situation and begin to heal. LinksAwareness Clearing the Clutter of Your Mind Your Subconscious Beliefs Can Limit You Are You Willing? to do your best at these moments
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