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Willing to Be MeAre you willing to be the only one who sees you and hears you? Are you willing to accept yourself exactly as you are, whether everyone else walks away from you, or whether everyone embraces you? When you choose to heal your life, this is one of the most important statements and affirmations you begin to use to help clear the confusion, and truly begin to accept what is, and love yourself unconditionally. Are you willing to love yourself unconditionally no matter what others around you may be saying or thinking? Are you willing to see yourself as doing the best you possibly can with the resources you currently have? This is not easy when most of us are used to looking for approval from others. This is not easy when one of the most instinctual human needs is to be connected to another. This is not easy when most of us have been conditioned to measure our own self worth from what others tell us, or from the relationships we have at this current moment.It's a Change in Your Perception, and a way to heal your mindHow do you become willing? What do you have to do? You begin to change your thoughts, and begin to notice and be aware of your intent. Once you know what it you want, and once you notice what form and outcome you want from this, you can begin to accept and adapt, and notice your thoughts.When you notice your thought, tune in to your feelings and emotions. What is stirring up inside of you? Be aware of what outcome you were wanting from someone else. What is it that you believe someone else should be doing right now to make you happy? Are you willing to give that to yourself unconditionally? Are you willing to look at your self, and take control of your life? You can change your perception, and You can change your thoughts about anything. You can begin to notice as you listen to your words, your actions, and what it is you want or expect those around you to do for you in order for you to be happy.Do you believe others are responsible for, making you happy? Be honest, and notice these thoughts. We all tend to focus our attention outwards, looking for others to fill us up. This is how we all give our power away, and then blame others for taking it. Your own happiness is based on actions and expectations from you. Are You Willing?Links and ResourcesCodependency, are you willing to be different? Personal Responsibility Family of Origin Embracing All of You Helping You Help Yourself
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