What is True......... Who Has the Answers?We are all searching for answers to many things, and what works for one person, doesn't necessarily work for someone else. Kinda like asking the question is there a God? What happens to us after we Die?We all have questions, and we are constantly searching for answers. I can only write about what is true for me, since everything is for me. There is no right way, and there isn't only one way. It is interesting to hear others talk about their own fears during our conversations, and to see the differences and yet the similarities. As we go through out lives, we come into contact with many people going through various different challenges. This is life. Some of them are struggling with children, others are dealing with deaths, others are dealing with their own illnesses. Some are so distraught about the loss of a job, and some are so angry at everyone they come into contact with, almost as if they hate the person for being happy, and fulfilled when their own lives seem so out of control. Depending on the situation, I find myself doing my best to bite my tongue, when I want to recommend a book, or a counselor that I believe may help them. It is so easy to find myself saying you should look into this, or try this method. Sometimes I believe that part of the reason for this website, is so that I can write about different resources, get it off my chest, and know that if any one is looking for their own answers, they will find them, when they need them. I have been looking for answers right from my earliest recollections. We all have. It's also best to say, that these answers and whatever else we may be dealing with at this moment, are there because it is what we need and what we have chosen to experience. It's not a matter of fixing anyone, because we are all exactly where we need to be. Whatever we are experiencing is perfectly fine, and it is part of our journey. It's not my place to tell others what they should be doing with their life, and then again we are all human, and that is part of who we are. Those are boundaries I have done my best to not step on, yet I also see today, that my boundaries were not always so clear. Today, I know what is true for me,and my boundaries are clear.What is true for me, is strictly for me. When we can understand that our reactions and our life is created by our beliefs, and when we begin to see that we have the power to create change, no matter how small that may seem, we will begin to notice how people come into our lives, with exactly what it is we may be needing. As children, we rely on our parents for answers, and guidance. It was my own children, who helped me, and motivated me when it was right for me.The way we felt and the experiences we lived as children are a part of what is true for us now. Our upbringing, culture and any religious background still play a big part in our lives today and how we see ourselves today. Looking back on those experiences, I realized what motivated me to change was when I began to see myself in my children. A lot of what I saw, was good, and positive. A lot of what I saw was insecurities, and frustration. How could I expect them to work through their fears, when I hadn't worked through mine.They were my mirror, and I was theirs.They were and still are my motivation, and my inspiration to......continue to heal my inner child The adult that I am today is willing to be the one who has the answers for me, and the solutions. Every thing that I have experienced in my life is exactly what I have asked for. I am slowly beginning to see how the universe has a way of providing for us exactly what we want, and ask for.... Even when, or should I say Especially when...It may not always be what we think we asked for, and it doesn't always look like what we believe we've asked for. Yet what if it was? Only you can answer these questions for yourself.....Are you content?Are you Happy? Are you living your life the way you want to? Have you ever asked yourself; why is this happening to me? What did I do to create this? The resources below, are what works for me, at this time in my journey, and are what I use. Some are easier to understand, than others, and I have found that it has to do with where we may be at that makes them that way. Re-reading certain books over and over, always brings different messages, at different times. Books that made no sense to me fifteen, or twenty years ago, suddenly make perfect sense today. What I do know now is....Once you allow yourself the privilege of getting to know yourself and once you begin to live on purpose and be aware, you do find the resources, and people that will assist you.At this moment it involves trusting the process, and seeing your situation in a different way. These resources and tools have questioned my thoughts, or maybe I had the questions first and found the answers to my questions in these concepts... The how and why doesn't matter........ What Matters is.....We all face fear and deal with things the way we do because of our beliefs. Some of our beliefs we are not even aware that we have.By opening up our mind and by being willing to listen and trust in ourselves we find the answers. What is true, and who has the answers is knowing that only you have the answers for you.
How would you deal with life situations.....If you changed the beliefs that were not working for you?Truth is what you believe is true for you.I will continue to add resources as I work through my own journey. You may find what is true through these resources, or through others. Be aware, and you will begin to recognize them as you see them.What matters and what is true is only you can take care of you..... What is True I am Deserving of............
We all work through Fear, and we all have stories we'd like to share. Now you can tell us yours.
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