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Are You Living in a State of Fear?Only you can honestly decide if you are living in a state of fear. If you feel that any of the following statements resonate with you or your current challenges, just realize, that all this really means is that YOU COULD BE LIVING IN A STATE OF FEAR. The GOOD NEWS is that once you recognize this you have the choice to continue living this way, or healing your life. What I do know is that once you begin to raise your level of self esteem and Love Yourself Unconditionally: The Rest Will Follow. When you have truly set an intention in your heart to heal, you will begin to discover and notice opportunities that begin to come your way. What it amounts to is you may have to notice or question or wonder, and then take the step. The way you may decide might be by asking yourself the question "Is what I'm doing right now in my current situation working for me?". If your answer is no, you may want to choose again.
Believing you are not good enough, smart enough, rich enough, or deserving of anything worthy, and beautiful that this life your are living in at this present moment has to offer you. Feeling responsible for the feelings and reactions of others. Believing that you are to blame for their experiences and that it is all your fault. Always feeling guilty when anything goes wrong, even when you logically know you have nothing to feel guilty about. Suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, or extreme feelings of depression. Feeling as if there is nothing worth living for, and that no one would ever miss you when you're gone. Feeling helpless, worthless, pathetic and incapable of making decisions for yourself. Constantly waiting and hoping that others will change or that others will eventually see who you really are and love you enough to make you happy. Feeling jealous, envious or angry when you see someone is happier that you are, or has more than you. Constantly making excuses to family and friends for the actions of partners and pretending that everything is okay and normal. Resenting, blaming, and accusing others in your life for the way your life has become. Believing on a cellular unconscious or conscious level that everyone is better than you, knows more than you. Finding yourself looking to change who you are so that someone else may love you, and pretending that you are happy and perfect for this someone, when inside you are so fearful, afraid and unhappy that one day they may notice the real you and rather than liking what they see, they may choose to leave. If any of the above statements ring true for youRealize that these are old feelings and patterns. These are ways a child would behave, and it may be time to revisit that of part of your life and understand this state of fear, because once you do you heal your life today.Have compassion for yourself Understand yourself Your HealingBEGINS ONLY WHEN YOU NOTICE THE PATTERNS
A Growing sense of who you are grows like a seed from within..... With LOVE
F.E.A.R....Feeling Emotions Accepting Responsibility Go from a State of Fear to Loving Who You Are Today Our ego doesn't understand the difference between what's real and whats not It is possible to stop living in a state of fear and Heal Your Life at this moment by taking the next step Just Believe Share your wisdom with others
Take a risk and speak from your heart and discover that this is all it takes to make a difference.
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