Life of a Marwadi Girl

by xxxxx
(bangalore)

Hi
I want to talk about my life, in fact about the life of every Marwadi girl out there. I am a girl from a conservative family where you have to do always what your dad says. I feel I'm born in this world to do something that girls basically do not do in my community. I wanna study abroad. There are many reasons for me to study abroad. One is that I want to study, then earn and stand on my legs, and the other is I am in love with a guy who is so supportive that he is the one to help me taking the decision to study. I and he share a rapport that is very good. We both understand each other,we both fight at times, cry at times ..... everything is good in my relation but one fact is that I come from a conservative family so i m scared to talk about my relation and I dunno if ill marry him or not........ what do you all suggest. Should I do what my dad says or do what my heart says?