The Honest responseA Honest response is always the best way to avoid communication conflicts, and whenever I'm in doubt, this phrase always helps guide me: "The Truth will always keep my head above water" When you come from a place of love and when you ask yourself what is my " highest good" you can give an honest response of "No" and be rid of blame, and guilt. Remember if you've found yourself saying "Yes" to something at first, and later realize that you weren't coming from your highest good. You can always change your "YES" to a "NO" at any time. Examples of an "Honest No"Thank you, and no.I hear you; you could be right, and no. Thank you for asking, and no. I hear what you are saying, and no. I understand, and no. I appreciate what I'm hearing, and no You're right, and no I hear you. I care about you, and no I understand, and no. What else do you suggest? Thank you for sharing that with me, and no. I can see that it works for you, and no. I want to please you, and no I'm quite frightened to say no to you, please support me and the answer is no for now. I'm confused right now, and until I get clear, no. I don't know yet. Please ask me later. No, and I need your help and support on this.
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