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Fear to Love...Back to Articles Main Page This Fear to Love is a very big epidemic in our world, and understanding where and how it originates, will bring you the opportunity to change what no longer serves you.If I could call it a goal, it would be to move through Fear to LOVE. Without even being aware of it, we all do are best to subconsciously protect and hide, our own vulnerability, and it is this wall that we have placed around our hearts that we can begin to peel off as we understand more about the emotion of FEAR. Raising Your Own Sense of Self Worth and allowing your own power to emerge is the most freeing and greatest gifts you give to others. It can also feel very vulnerable, and intimidating. When we believe our story, you make it real. When ever we believe that others are responsible , we give away our own power, and the truth is, that we waste so much energy on what we believe rather than who we are. Ask yourself: " What is it about me, or my relationship, that has me willing to continue living this way"? The choice is always yours to continue living your life the way you are or to begin to take personal responsibility, without blame, and begin to transform it.This choice must always come from a place of self love. This is the power of love. Be willing to do your best, and willing to notice how and where you separate. Be willing to notice, and pay attention to what is happening in side of you, and begin to trust your own inner guidance. It is your own inner guidance, your higher self, your intuition that will help you face what you may be resisting. All of our relationships, especially relationships with your life partners, provide the opportunity to heal your own unresolved family of origin issues. It is not coincidental, that they bring out the best and the worst in us.No two people come together in a relationship without similar family of origin issues. The purpose of all relationships is to bring up these wounds so that you can heal them, and so that you can remember the truth.We take so many things personally, and we believe the story. Yet, when we don't like how we are treated, and when we find our self constantly triggered, we are the only person in our relationship who can change this. When we can begin to look at our relationships, this way,and say others as a reflection of our own thoughts, and beliefs not only can we heal our past, we can heal our lives in the present moment, and not pass those patterns down to our children. We begin to see ourselves, and everyone else differently. This life long process, brings opportunities to heal, and free your own mind, as you change your thoughts and perceptions, about what you believe is happening to you.Moving from fear to love is about re discovering, who you are, and as you begin to come from a place of love and respect for self, your mirrors, begin to change. No one can do anything to you against your will, and once you check in, you'll know what you most need to heal. When you begin to Love yourself, you can choose again, and be willing to see it through a different perspective, and a different point of view.Moving from fear to love, is a process which takes as long as it is meant to take. It involves moving from a special relationship to a holy relationship. Whether you believe it or not, when children are involved, a Holy Relationship, is a universal law, which only requires that you come to peace, acceptance and love for self and others. Whether you stay in your relationship or leave, a Holy Relationship is how you help break the pattern from being repeated again.
What is The definition of a "Holy Relationship?"The definition of a Holy Relationship, is the ability to see the "Innocence of Self and Others." Seeing through the ego, and into the soul.The death of special can be a difficult one to grasp, and yet once you remember that fear is your driving force, then moving towards a Holy Relationship, which is Love for Self and Others, helps clear things up. 
Your thoughts and beliefs are energyYour thoughts and your beliefs are powerful forces of energy. When we point our finger out and blame others, we give our power away and then get angry at the person we gave it to. Look around you and when you don't like what you see, how can you be of service. How can you help others, because, it is more that possible to take responsibility, and move through your own fear based belief system towards a love based belief system.
Begin to recognize your own feelings, and write them down. As you begin to notice these feelings, accept them. This step will show you where you can begin to release and unblock your energy. This doesn't have to feel as if a door has been closed forever. Your thoughts is where this belief comes from. Can you see the opportunities, and the opening of another? Accept your feelings, and allow them to bring you to your tears. Imagine them as a indicator of what you most need to look at in your own life. This is your opportunity to walk through your
fear to Love.
Some Points to Relfect on*Accept yourself as being whole and complete exactly the way you are at this moment in time. Moving from fear to love is a process, and it takes place exactly the way its meant to.*When you notice negative thoughts change your thoughts and believe you are capable! *Choosing to believe the story, and making it real is a choice. You can waste your energy on such choices, or use your energy to work through your own fear to love. Choose again. *Give yourself permission to take care of you. As you give yourself permission, you show others how to do the same. Consciously choose Love. 
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