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Embrace your FEAR

Embrace Your Fears, and give yourself permission to notice your Feelings and Emotions. This leads to accepting responsibility.

Not always easy to notice what you are resisting or suppressing,and yet when you notice what your are avoiding you begin to see how you do so as a way of minimizing yourself.

You may begin to notice that when you find yourself reacting and being triggered by certain experiences, it is because you may be resisting and suppressing these traits in yourself. How many times do you pretend that everything is okay, when in fact, something within you, is shouting "It's not okay"? Your feelings and emotions are telling you differently, and rather than tuning them out,listen. Listen to your thoughts, and be wiling to change these thoughts, and release the resistance, because:

"Whatever you resist persists." Exercise #3 Embrace Your Fears

One of the easiest ways to recognize yourself, is to look at your relationships and listen, because every single relationship, whether it is your life partner, friend, boss, or children, will help you see your own reflection, and will assist you, in recognizing where your thoughts lead you.

We all can see in others, what we usually have a very hard time seeing in our self.

The relationships we find the most challenging are the ones that bring us the biggest gifts of all. They are the relationships we can heal within our own self. They help us recognize what we are resisting, or unable to accept in our selves. As we embrace our fears, and work through these relationships, we begin to see them as opportunities to heal those parts of ourselves we are being led to. No two people come together by chance, and it is no coincidence that you find yourself in your current relationships because we attract what we most put our attention to.

The relationships in your current life today, which may have you believing you need to run away from, and causing you grief, anger, frustration, or making you feel powerless, out of control, or whatever else you may feel, are opportunities for you to change the way you seem them. These relationships bring with them your greatest teachers, and when you react, it is because something in you has been triggered. Find out what the feeling is, and accept responsibility for healing this part of you. This is what being willing to embrace your fears, is all about, even if you don't know the whys and hows, just say yes to the opportunity.

Say yes, because as you heal these feelings and emotions, your relationships will transform into something you may never have imagined. Let it begin with the most important relationship of all. The relationship with yourself. Embrace your fears, and be willing to take what may feel like a risk, and be self fish and do this for the relationship with you.

Please do this exercise the next time you are triggered or dislike something in another human being. Whatever we dislike in another human being, is always because we have yet to accept this aspect of our own self. I promise you that once you can accept and acknowledge this part of you, you may not be triggered in the same way by this person again. Can you embrace and see this part in you? Can you see the victim in you, the blamer, the judge? We can't know one without knowing the other.

"You can't know light without the darkness"

When you recognize this dark personality in you.... Are you willing to embrace it and accept it unconditionally? Can you find compassion and empathy for how this personality in you, kept you safe? I promise that as you accept all of the dark aspects in you, your triggers and many of your relationships that you have a hard time with in the present moment will affect you less, not because they've changed, but because you can see those sames aspects in you, and because you understand the opportunity that this relationship brings for you. The opportunity to love and accept yourself exactly as you are. You will not be triggered anymore from these aspects when you take responsibility for them in you.

Embrace yours fears,

Give yourself permission, to step into your power, and begin living your life from this moment forward, as the creator of your life, your experiences, and yourself. As you embrace your fears, you can face your reality, accepting what is, and make all of your choices consciously from this place of love and acceptance, of who you are at this moment.

This is How You Begin to Raise the Vibrational Energy of Love and Peace In Our World.

Every single one of your own personal experiences have a purpose. Nothing is by chance. If you feel afraid embrace your fears, and trust that you may never have all the answers. Have faith that as you accept what is, and allow those feelings to surface, you have created this reality to discover your gifts, and your purpose. They come from your own experiences. Accept, and Embrace your fears with love, because as you do, you empower yourself, and you create miracles in your life, as you raise your own vibrational energy.

This is the opportunity which is Always available to you, in All Ways.

Choose, to see your life this way, because your past does not need to determine your future, unless you choose to allow it.

You can heal every relationship in your life, including relationships with people who may no longer be alive as you heal your own relationship with yourself.

Your relationships are your opportunities to heal your fears, and the purpose of every single relationship is for you to remember who you are. The person in your relationships who may be appearing as darkness, are your friendly souls. See through the darkness and fear, and remember who you are and help them remember themselves.

At times,you may find yourself discouraged.... Feeling lost disappointed and all alone. You may feel as if you are walking through a maze, and you will be tempted to go back to your old ways; your comfort zones. It may feel more comforting and you may fall back into those ways. Don't be discouraged.

You may feel very afraid and alone.....Embrace it, feel it, and trust, that you will never fall as far back as you may have done the last time. It's never the same, and you can choose, with faith and trust, that you are capable of getting back up on your feet as you surface and as you explore your fears. You will lead yourself in the right direction, always in all ways.

Believe and have faith, you've merely just forgotten who you are, and your experiences are reminding you of the important purpose, that you have set out to accomplish. This purpose is to remember who you are, and share this, because as you remember, you help others remember too.

You need not ever be afraid again, because as you share your love, in your vulnerability you discover your greatest strengths. Show others what it looks like as you embrace your fears..... and give them permission to do the same.... Trust in Your Own Wisdom, Embrace Your Fears

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