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Discover your PotentialYou are about to discover your potential. Whether you realize it, you do create your own reality. It may be very difficulty to accept this comment if you find yourself living in an abusive relationship. You may believe you can't do anything about this. These are your thoughts, and these thoughts will continue to have you living this way. The reality you are living now, is because of years of conditioning, and because of your own upbringing. You have become so used to this, that you have become comfortable and whenever you are out of this comfort zone, subconsciously this is where you go back to. You can discover your potential , and change all of this if you are willing. You begin by raising your comfort level. And this starts as you understand your own developmental stages. Discover your potential, and rather than being a victim of abuse, see that it is more than possible to change your level of self worth, and find balance in your world. As you begin to take responsibility for your life, you will find that by questioning your own thoughts and beliefs, you begin to make changes, which honor and respect you. All of the tools and modules are meant to help you, and it is extremely important that you always come from a place of Self Love first and foremost. Using several different modules and tools, rather than just one way, is what makes this successful. You will want to continue to discover your potential, because you will begin to see changes around you. Remember you are not doing anything against anyone else. You are doing this for yourself, and this is what frees your own mind and heals your life. In order to discover your potential, it is necessary to discover where all of your beliefs first originated. Every experience has a purpose, and as you begin to notice your experiences and learn from them, it becomes your choice to choose to change the self limiting beliefs which are no longer serving you and which are keeping you stuck and frozen in fear. It becomes your choice, to see the opportunities these experiences have brought you.I do strongly suggest you find a facilitator, or a professional in this field who knows how to use the different modules you will read about on this website. I do suggest you make sure that you find someone that is not out to seek revenge on any one. Rather, choose someone who focuses on helping you. You will want someone you can feel comfortable with, and someone who can help you recognize and see your own patterns. Someone who will help you learn how to take responsibility. Someone who can explain co-depending, and colluding. Most importantly, someone who knows how to do process work. Ideally someone who also is familiar with John Bradshaw's work, and family systems.All of this will help you see the patterns in your life, and help you see how this has been passed down to you, and more importantly you are passing this down to your children. Some call these patterns are own baggage, and this is what we bring into every relationship. This is what we end up repeating, and recreating in our lives. We do this, until we choose to choose again. As you face your fears, you will discover the areas in your own self that continue to have you living in fear. As you begin to understand and work through your past fears, you will see a different reflection and reality in your life, because there is no one outside of your own self that is responsible for this.No one can ever control you unless you allow them to. Be willing to Love yourself and be willing to see your own worthiness and deserving. You may have been taught from a very early age that this sense of deserving is selfish, or maybe you have no idea what it looks like to honor yourself. All of this is possible, and I promise you that when you love and honor yourself, this is the reality you will see reflected back to you.Yes, it's important that you find ways to see through this, especially if you have children, because selfish is when we continue living our lives as victims and when we know that this is what we are passing down to our own children. Freedom from your fears, and PEACE comes as you accept every aspect of your self and your life. As you begin to take the steps towards doing your own work, you begin releasing the false perceptions which have kept you stuck.It takes a great deal of courage to accept that FEAR STANDS IN YOUR WAY. I encourage you to embrace yourself for taking this step, because as you do, you will change everything. I encourage you to find your tears if this makes you feel helpless. Yours tears are an important part of this process. Allowing you to accept what is, and finding ways to adapt. Have faith in yourself, because you are exactly where you're meant to be, and the right moment in time, is always at this moment.Find your motivation, whether that comes from your children at this time, or whether is comes from a sense of knowing. Begin to believe that when you do something for your own good, and when your intention is for you, it is always to the highest good of everyone around you, no matter how fearful it may appear. The goal is to move through your fear based belief system to a Love based belief system. Rather than going around them, and rather than suppressing, the goal is to feel the feelings, and face reality from this place of peace. This is all there is, and you will discover your potential, when you accept that it always begins withSELF LOVE
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