Clearing up the Clutter in your mindClearing up the clutter in your mind is important, yet because, everything can be so confusing and you have no idea what to believe or who to believe anymore, how do you know where to start?
You do this by educating yourselfAnd trusting the process because one step will lead you to another.You always have someone to believe. The someone is yourself. Trust that part of you which is still within you, and this is what clearing up the clutter will lead you to. You may not hear this intuitive part of you as much as you can, yet it is still inside of you. This is the child like part of you, and it is the essence of you are you. As you begin clearing up your mind, you will discover that it is possible for you to Feel good about yourself at all times in your journey. To love yourself even when you hear those thoughts inside of you saying you screwed up again. You did it again. This I do know from my own personal experiences. You don't need to be a victim or survivor unless you choose to beIf you see yourself as a victim you will be a victim, and the same is true for survivors. Either way your ego is involved. One is no better than the other from my own perception and from what I see with my own eyes. It is very easy to get caught in the role of one or the other and the importance is to remember we are all equal, we are all innocent.We have no needs, we are whole and complete exactly the way we are. You must find your true essence,and in order to get there we have to be willing to work and heal and this can be done when you take responsibility and take back your what is rightfully yours, with unconditional love.Everyone outside of you is a mirror and a reflection of you.Mirroring back to you, your thoughts and feelings about how you see yourself. It is time to take responsibility and take control of your feelings and emotions. There are ways for you to make sure you no longer take on the responsibility and the feelings that are a result of the actions of others which are out of your control. Will this be easy? It will be as easy or as difficult as it is, and all I can honestly tell you from my own experiences is that it is freeing and if nothing else it gives you back your life which is rightfully yours. If will help you see how emotionally draining and exhausting it can be to live with other peoples emotions. It also stops others from taking responsibility for their own actions and emotions, and it allows them the space they need to take care of themselves.Do you feel whole and complete exactly as you are? Or are you still searching for something or someone to make you feel that way?What ever you are feeling in you life at this moment in time, is the starting point. It's exactly where you are meant to be, and it's perfectly fine just the way it is. Unconditional Love involves the riskto be vulnerableThis is when fear may make you feel frozen, and clearing up the clutter of confusion may at first feel unsafe and as if you are unprotected. The feelings because of this confusion may be interpreted as powerless, and yet once we begin clearing up the clutter of our minds, we realize that with vulnerability with people we feel attached to is where we begin to heal, and it is possible to be vulnerable and be empowered. The Truth is that by accepting your fear, and working through your fear You are finding your way. It takes work, and most of all Loving Yourself Unconditionally exactly the way you are at this moment in time. Are you Willing? You see, the choices are always yours. Marianne Williamson's poem"OUR DEEPEST FEAR"is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light , not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of god. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make and manifest the glory of god that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. Clearing up the clutter begins with you
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