What Does Breaking the Cycle Mean?
"Breaking the Cycle" was the name of a class I read about in 1993. The name got my attention, and the description, made be cringe and walk away. The class sounded interesting enough, yet I believed it was too much time spent looking back, and I didn't feel this class was for me back then. I couldn't see how taking this class would benefit me, since I believed I knew everything about anything back then. I felt I was very aware and on top of my own feelings and emotions. I knew too much to allow myself to make the same mistakes with my own family as I believed my own parents made with me. (Yes, those were my beliefs back then, and I see things very differently today). I have thought back to that day and that course often during my own journey, and today, I see how the pieces of my own life with all it's missing pieces of my puzzle are all beginning to fit together to bring me to this place and time.
I have thought about what my life may have been like if I had taken the course back then. This is where my mind wanders when I am not aware and it is how I avoid and take a break. This is my ego and I can catch myself and bring myself back to present time. Our ego likes to play these what if's and what could have been, constantly if we allow it. Our ego will never change. The change occurs when we can see and be aware of this. I wasn't meant to take the course back then because I didn't. I was also meant to experience everything I have experienced, and this much I know for sure. Anything different right now would be arguing with reality, and I have better things to do today.
My Life is full of opportunities
Every thing has a purpose,
the most tragic events imaginable
have all been part of this process. I get and understand the importance of recognizing that I see things a certain way because of my own family of origin. I understand that all of my fears begin here. Your Family of Origin is where your current struggles and challenges can begin to make sense for you and help you in
Breaking the Cycle
You have a purpose
Breaking the Cycle means staying conscious, and working on being the change, because it is always the right time.
Links
Soul Purpose
Your Belief-System
Your Family Dynamics
Developing Years
What Causes of Fear
The Root Cause of Fear
Living In a State Of Fear

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