"Be the Change"
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Whenever you hear yourself or someone else saying If only he/she would change, then I would be happier, more successful, or more at peace. It's time to ask yourself
"Is That True?"
"Can you be all of that which you want to see in another?"
When ever we want someone else to change, we will always lose, because we are arguing with reality, we are stepping out of our own business, and we are avoiding our own. The truth is we are the only person we have a right to change, and if we don't like what we see, then it is up to us to be the change we want to see around us. Imagine asking yourself:
"How Can I Be that Change I want to see around me ?"
We spend so much time worry about what everyone else is saying and doing, we forget that the only person we have a right to change is ourselves. We spend so much time, wanting someone else to notice us, take care of us, and appreciate us that we forget how powerful and in control we can be. When we choose to live our life from a place of self love, we no longer give our power away and we also show others how to live their life with love. We spend so much time pointing the finger out there, blaming our parents, our spouses, bosses friends, neighbors, our governments, and anyone else we can think of, so that we can avoid looking at how we created this reality. What would it look like, if we stopped and asked ourselves; " How can I be the change?" It is a thought and changing your thoughts will begin to open up opportunities, when you notice them as such. More importantly, it doesn't matter whether you get an answer to the first question, or even know what that looks like. Just answering yes to; " AM I WILLING?", will begin the process. It is not about having all the answers, it is about the willingness to begin. Once you can imagine this, you can begin to create it. Are you willing To Be The Only One Who Sees you and Hears You? Now pay attention, I didn't say you have to be the only one, I just asked if you were "WILLING" because just by simply changing the words you use, will change your life, and have you taking control of the one thing you may have given away, your responsibility to yourself, and your responsibility in doing
your own work.
Self care, self love, however you choose to call it, is your business. This is your birth right. It is an agreement worth living consciously. The choice to be the change you want to see around you, is your choice. Only you can choose. Whether you are currently feeling abused, and controlled by another, whether you are currently in the middle of any ugly separation from what appears to be an abusive spouse, or whether you have other stressful things happening in your life. These are opportunities for you to step up and take your place. Be the change because this is your responsibility. It doesn't matter where you are in your own journey or how old or young you are. It Is Never Too Late. The truth is, This moment is always the right moment.
The Steps to take control of your LIFE
1. Awareness
Once you can see what is going on inside of you, you will have taken a step towards change. You cannot change anyone else. You can however learn to listen and trust your intuitive self. This self awareness will lead you to understanding your own personal experiences, and what it is you are meant to learn from those experiences. LOVE YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY,and learning to accept yourself exactly as you are, is the true meaning behind change.
2. Personal Responsibility
Personal responsibility is very different from blaming yourself or anyone else.We find it easier at times to believe that others have hurt us or are responsible for the way our life is. How can we be the change to what is going on for us at this moment? Pointing the finger out, is giving away your power. Learn to listen to what it is you believe others should be doing in order for you to be happy. Can you be the change. Turn this statement around, and ask yourself "What should I be doing?" As you take responsibility, you come from a place of power, and a place of control, and you can be the change. Self love, and honoring yourself, comes from your intent to take care of your own self first and foremost. This is honoring yourself.
3.Facing Your Fears
Facing your FEARS leads you to answers, and helps you find the steps to SELF LOVE. It leads you to seeing your own innocence, and when you LOVE YOURSELF unconditionally....... the rest will fall into place. Take the time to learn and question. some thing different. Trust that you will be led to what you most need to look at in this time in your life. You may notice things which you may see as coincidences, or just luck. This is what some refer to as synchronicity and it is up to you to notice the signs which are all around you, when you are willing and open to notice.
4. See Your Current Experiences differently.
Just one change in your way of thinking and in your perception can free you from your own unhappiness, and you can begin to see miracles in your life, as your reclaim your power from a place of self love. This is how you can be the change you want to see around you.
Be open to the possibilities.
You can ALWAYS Choose Again because you have free will. The choices are always yours to see any way you choose.
Choose Love
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