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Self Awareness is What Leads To Solutions
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Awareness, leads to solutions and successful changes in your life as you begin to understand, accept responsibility and become accountable for everything in your life. That means everything which is not working in your life today as well as what is working in your life today. This self-discovery can begin at any stage of your life, and you first notice this awareness as a constant repetition and unbalance in your life. It may happen as you hear yourself making up excuses for others or yourself over and over. No matter when it happens, remember it is exactly perfect. One day, you may recognize that the excuses are always the same, and that you keep repeating the same patterns which suddenly you admit have been going on for years. It may appear as a feeling of constant uncertainty, which you find you keep trying to discredit as a foolish thought. Some people may experience a life altering event, which makes them feel as if they've hit rock bottom, and there's no where else to go. It could be an unexpected break up, the end of a relationship, or a major health issue. Whatever it is, you will know, because it appears as if it shatters everything and you'll sense that nothing will ever be the same way again. This awareness, can come in many shapes and forms, and whatever the picture looks like, it represents change, and it can only be changed by you, for you and it will never work if you continue to change yourself for someone else, or set out to change them for you.Sometimes these experiences appear as if they catch you completely off guard, and leave you feeling shattered and hopeless, making you question if and how you can ever get back up on your feet again. If you can be completely honest with yourself, a part of you already knew it would happen, yet most of us choose to ignore the signs, until we can no longer continue to ignore them.
Life is full of struggles, and challenges or it can be full of opportunities. It is not so much what happens to us, it is how we cope with what happens, that is the key. We see and give meaning to what happens to us, from our own past experiences and how we perceive it. The truth is that we create our reality, and taking the time to really understand how we do this is the awareness that begins to put you back in control of your life. This may be too hard to accept right now, and yet accepting that we create our reality and every experience is important if you want to heal and create peace in your life.All of your experiences have a purpose and how you see your experiences is part of the journey of healing and accepting what is.Healing yourself comes from your awareness, and from your own desires and motivations. You begin to take the steps to accepting responsibility for your own happiness, and for your own life.Accepting yourself, exactly as you are, is what this awareness is ultimately meant to do, because this is where you heal and continue living your life on purpose. Once you understand this, you begin to be clearer about how there is no one to forgive. Learning to love yourself unconditionally begins to grow on you as you do your own inner work.It's this awareness which continues to lead you and encourage you to find the balance and as you do so you also begin to increase your own self esteem and self worth in a way which may be completely different than you've ever imagined. This creates the change in you which changes what you see around you, and creates the miracles which you may have only imagined until now. Your own self awareness is what makes you curious to begin to look beneath the surface, to the cause. This is where this understanding and awareness comes into play and begins to make sense. What's beneath the surface is where the healing occurs as you begin to understand how your behaviors are a form of communication and has been a way of keeping you safe, until you are ready. When you understand more about the feelings you've resisted, all of this will help you begin to see the behavior differently. You can begin to positively change the setting events, which are creating the behaviors.Your motivation and desire to take the risk, will come for many reasons.
As A Parent, it may come as you see yourself in your Children Useful Reading
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