Accepting ResponsibilityAccepting responsibility for every single thing that occurs in your life. Every thing.This would mean that there would be no blame or excuses. This would mean that instead of blame or excuses we would ask the question :"How did I create this?" Accepting responsibility means taking control of the situation. Staying in the moment, and choosing again. Taking ownership and acceptance, keeps us in our power and keeps us in our own business. Like anything else it is something that requires understanding and patience, because at first it is a difficult task. Ask yourself the questions "How did I create this? Listen to your answers. What are the FEELINGS that your answers bring up in you. Those are the feelings you can begin to explore. The Feelings it brings upThe Emotions that are stirred up inside of you are your clues. They are what you will begin to become more aware of with practice. The feelings are leading you to the origin and every time you hear yourself blaming someone, or giving reasons or excuses you will catch yourself and eventually see how those feelings are old and have been with you for a very long time.Keep asking yourself the question "How did I create this?""How can I change this?" Listen to the answers you receive, and do your best at bringing the responsibility back to you. The purpose of this exercise becomes clearer while practicing and you will become more aware of your own thoughts and where they normally lead you. It is important for you to listen to your thoughts and see where your beliefs take you. This awareness which is all found within you shows you your answers and puts you in control of you. This is one aspect and one way to begin clearing up the clutter of confusion, and a very simple and good starting place. Is this easy? This depends on you and at frustrating as it can be in the beginning is does begin to turn into a habit. Learning to take my own power back has been one of the most invigorating and meaningful part of my learning to live in the now, and being the change. This is how it feels for me, and as fearful as it seems at times, I look forward to each new day and the potentiality that I am capable of creating.
Rememberevery time you give excuses or blame your situations on another, you give away your Power and Your Control.You become the victims of the actions of others. This is a choice you make every time you blame and place the fault on another. When you do this you are at the mercy of others, and out of your business. Accepting Responsibilityis "a human being in control" The energy is empowering It creates change, and it is freedom because as you look at your beliefs and your perceptions, and your fears, you will know exactly how to take care of your business.The changes create a rippling effect in your life. As you take responsibility for you. Observe and listen to your wordsand do your best to catch yourself when you give excuses or give explanations to another for your actions.Be aware of the times you hear yourself blame others. Be aware of the time you hear yourself blame yourself. The more you can observe this and notice this in yourself, the more aware you become and the more you see that peace and control of your life begin with you. The choice is always yours..... Minding My Business and Accepting Responsibility Minding Your Business is Accepting Responsibility for Yourself Knowledge Makes it Happen for Us All In all Relationships one person is all it takes to change the course of action
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