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Accepting Responsibility Puts You in Control
Accepting Responsibility is not about taking the blame. It is learning to see your reality as it really is. It is about accepting what is, and then taking the next step to change what it is which is creating this state of fear. Seeing it differently and changing your thoughts. Changing your own perception about how you see the situation. Anything other than this is what Byron Katie calls arguing with reality, and when we argue with What Is we lose. I would recommend reading "Loving What Is because Byron Katie, explains so perfectly how taking responsibility is very different from taking the blame or being responsible for the actions of others. When you really stop and pay attention to certain situations you may realize that your thoughts and nothing more is creating certain situations in your life which are stressful. Learning to take control of our life is being aware of our thoughts and beliefs, because this is where you are driving yourself crazy. This is where you lose control of your emotional feelings, and it happens when you believe what someone else says about you.When you believe the story, you make it real. Behind every action is a thought. Behind every thought is a belief, behind every belief is an emotion, and behind every emotion is a feeling. Accepting responsibility happens as we get in touch with OUR feelings. This is What Frees YouAs You Own them and allow your feelings to help you get to the root cause. Allow yourself to be aware of exactly what your thoughts are telling you. This will help you make sense of where you find yourself at this moment. This will help you take control. It doesn't mean that the situation will get easier, but what it means is that you can accept whatever feelings you have, and make the best decision for yourself. You always have this control in every moment in time when you begin to do this with love for yourself, rather than against anyone else. By accepting responsibility for how you created this reality, you begin to move through any situation very differently. Realize that everything has a purpose and even if you don't know the reasons, have faith. Everything in your life that you cherish and love revolves around this.It may be difficult to see this at this moment. You may be used to believing you have no control, and that others control your life. You can change this because nothing is by chance and everything has a purpose. Question your thoughts. Appreciate the gifts that come, when you begin accepting responsibility for your life. See the opportunities you create. See your experiences and challenges, which may feel unmanageable at this time, as stepping stones to taking the next step. See your own growth and development. as the miracles you create as you begin to understand the laws of the universe.Blaming yourself or others keeps you stuck, powerless, and frozen. Personal responsibility empowers you rather than giving your power away. Be aware of how you react and are triggered, and focus on investigating these aspects of yourself. This is where the healing takes place. This is what changes your life. The choice is always yours, you can choose to stay stuck in the same situation and continue repeating the same patterns, or you can take responsibility for you life and this is the only business you have a right to. Love yourself unconditionally, Find the time to grieve and find your tears. This is how your healing begins. This is how you begin to make sense of your life. The answers always come bearing gifts, and are full of opportunities. It is up to you to notice and recognize the gifts. Accept responsibility and take control of your life, starting now.
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